we refused her help?

Heard Millie was upset during the OHAP about us refusing her help. Well, that's not exactly how it went down... She approached me at one point while I was outside. Mentioned that some things weren't being done in the kitchen. I thanked her for letting me know. But then I said that we'd take care of it. I didn't want her to feel she had to do work. The day was meant to be fun and relaxing for the members. It was the committee people that had to work, for this event. I also encouraged her to tell a committee person, if she saw something that was very wrong, and we'd tend to it.

I'll take some of the blame. I was probably rushing, distracted, thinking about other things, mildly stressed, and perhaps didn't take the time to sit down and calmly explain things.